If there is one thing I wish someone had told my 15-year-old me, it would have been, “Forget fast, forgive faster.”
Don’t expect too much from people because they will disappoint. Sometimes they will hurt and say mean things, but don’t take their words to heart because you’re the only one hurting. Besides, the mean things that they say is not a reflection of who you are as much as it is a reflection of who they are. Also, remember that everybody’s going through their own personal battles, most of which you don’t know about, so forget fast, and forgive faster.
Truely agree with this.. but its easier said than done..
The hardest thing to do is forgiving someone, but it becomes easier by forgiving yourself because normally we blame ourselves for having xyz expectation on that someone. But if you forgive yourself first then it becomes easier to forget and move on!
It’s easy to forgive than to forget…..